“You live a new life for every new language you speak. If you only know one language, you only live once.” – Czech Proverb
When I first read this quote maybe four or five years ago and added it to the collection of quotes I maintain, I understood the concept, but not the true meaning. This was because I didn’t know another language other than English like I know Russian now. To be honest, my Russian is not great. In fact, I would say that it is much worse than I thought and hoped it would be at this point. However, the point stands that I can now say that I can express myself and interact in another language other than English, a first for me.
Sitting here now in West Point, NY, I feel as though the past five months were just a dream, and that I’ve only now woken up. Maybe it was the lack of immediate connection to life here, maybe it was culture shock, but I do indeed feel like I have lived another life. I am reminded of the episode of Lost, where Jack (in a flashback) remembers meeting Desmond in a stadium before they reach the island, and before they part, Desmond says “See you in another life.” I wouldn’t say that I was a different person there, because I hope that my actions were guided by the same ethics and principles that they are here in the US. However, being immersed in a culture as different from ours as Russia’s fundamentally changes your view on things.
I discovered a lot about Russian culture there in only three months, both that I liked and despised. Therefore it is impossible for me to say fully that I was not impressed by the Russians, or that I was completely disappointed in what I saw. For example, I really enjoyed the Russian interest in all things intellectual and abstract. I think this is why they are regarded as so good at chess. They read to a point I would call obsessive, though their educational system is based on oral tests mostly. They read for pleasure and to learn about things that interest them, and they have no shortage of places to find them. Every day I walked past a small market where salespeople set up tables of books, and take them down every evening. Book stores tended to be small, but absolutely packed with people and shelves of books in all available space. They love to discuss politics, the economy, world and local affairs, sports, all equally. They have strong and sometimes stubborn opinions, which at times is unfortunate because they do not always receive completely accurate information from news sources (though this is improving, and who claims to read unbiased news in America?).
But back to the quote. In the end, after thinking about the meaning of this quote for a long time, I disagree with it as written. Another language does not give you another life, and of course learning nine languages doesn’t make you a cat. However, learning another language does add something to you. I believe that what this proverb is trying to relate is that learning another language gives you another set of eyes, another filter perhaps, through which to view the set of experiences we call life. For some people this is not a problem, and they can go through life ignorant of how others live and be happy because of it. For myself, on the other hand, I am glad that I got to see a little of how others live (though it would be arrogant and naïve to claim I know everything there is to know about the Russian culture).